Being aware of our need to change our conditioned responses is a good start in establishing healthy patterns in relationships. But awareness alone does not cause change. Change can only occur when you make a conscious decision to do whatever it takes to go boldly toward all that will help you to first become the love of your own life, prior to searching for love in other places. You have to be able to recognize real love by first experiencing it through a conscious commitment to loving yourself. And once you do, you will know from every awakening cell in your being that you don’t need someone else to provide what you already have. Then when a potential partner appears (or is already beside you), you will see him/her as someone significant in your life who will join you in extending and opening this love of yours — outward, upward and beyond.
Make the conscious decision to truly love yourself. You can do this.
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